Of all the sex acts out there, blow jobs are shrouded in the most mystery maybe aside from anal sex or pegging, but still. For something that has to do with your mouth, there's not always a ton of communication that goes down between two people, pre-BJ. Here's to hoping we can clear up all the misconceptions someday, in a future that is bright and shiny. I know what you're doing when I suddenly feel my head being nudged in a certain direction. Yeah, your "subtle" please-give-me-a-BJmove is not subtle at all. Women are all talking about this behind your back.

Half the journey is up to you. If you check out our oral sex etiquette guide , there are plenty of things you can and should do to make her experience with giving oral sex better. There is nothing Plus, no cleanup. My boyfriend is currently working hour weeks, manual labor. He eats dinner, plays on the computer minutes, then drags himself to bed. So, a few times a week, he gets a BJ.

For me, I just love making a guy squirm, seeing the faces he makes, and hearing the things he says. I get no real physical pleasure from doing it, but the experience is so rewarding. I love it. All of that just makes it SO worth it.

Whether you love it or hate it, you almost definitely have an opinion about oral sex, especially when it comes to performing oral sex. Sometimes you're into it, sometimes you're not, sometimes it's all about just focusing on trying not to gag if your partner has a penis, and sometimes you just give oral just so you can get some oral of your own in return. Like any other sex act out there, feelings on oral sex can often depend on your mood. Oral sex is complex. Oral isn't just about the physical sensations at play, but other factors too.